According to Eq. 4.5, the force on a single dipole is
So the net force on a dielectric object is
Here
You might assume that it wouldn't matter if you used the total field, after all, the dielectric can't exert a force on itself.
However, because the field of the dielectric is discontinuous at the location of any bound surface charge, the derivative induces a spurious delta function, and it is safer to stick to
Use Eq. 4.69 to determine the force on a tiny sphere, of radius
In this scenario, the external field is that of the uniform line charge. The electric field of such line charge points in its cylindrical radial direction:
In this solution I will assume that this field is roughly constant around the tiny sphere, so for practical purposes we can consider the scenario presented in Example 4.7 (page 193). In that example, after using boundary conditions to solve Laplace's equation, we find that the field inside the sphere is
Where
In the above, we will replace
We are now ready to use Equation 4.69:
Where I took